This benefit is specifically reserved for qualified Veterans and their spouses.
The Veterans Administration offers Aid and Attendance as part of an "Improved Pension" Benefit that is largely unknown. This Improved Pension allows for Veterans and surviving spouses who require the regular attendance of another person to assist in eating, bathing, dressing, undressing, medication dosing, or taking care of the needs of nature to receive additional monetary benefits.
You can get free assistance by calling the V.A. at 800-827-1000 and asking for the help line.
For questions and help in-person you can reach out to one of the V.A.’s Vet Centers. You can find the closest V.A.’s Veterans Benefits Administration Office nearest you with this link www.va.gov/directory/guide